lunes, 16 de noviembre de 2015

6. Loneliness

There's something that I have noticed and understood so long ago, yet I still have some difficulties in accepting it. It is the fact that we are alone. There can be a million people caring about you, your problems and fears. However, when everything goes to the ultimate point of a problem, to the extreme, one has to fight with one's own problems because nobody is going to be always there for you. And, in a way, it is good that it is that way. But, there are some times that the situation overwhelms you. Our minds are not prepared for all the possible problems. How to confront those ones? Better yet: how to heal your mind and heart? I cannot find any other answer to this question than the one I've found in the past, being something that I still feel quite heartbreaking: TIME. It's something that I knew before, but now I understand it better. Just let time pass.

domingo, 8 de noviembre de 2015

5. Fluctuation

Everything in this life is a permanent fluctuation. Pretty obvious, isn't it? What is okay today, can be bad tomorrow and vice versa. But, what is absolutely fantastic is that, despite the fact that everybody knows this statement is true, many people tend to complain about unfavourable changes, blaming bad luck or something/somebody else.
Money, people in our lives, jobs, interests, points of view, our feelings for a particular person...everything flows, changes! This could make a problem arise with people who need to have everything under control. How do I know it? Because I used to be one of those people. If that's your position on this matter, I mean, you need to have everything under control, I think you should change it or, leastways, balance it with the opposite.
What I'm trying to conclude is that we have no way to let things stay the way they are now. Good if you don't like them, sad if you like them. And even though they are clearly more stable situations that seem to last forever (and probably they could), you'll find something different throughout its duration.